Geoffery R. Garlick

My Grandfather passed away last night. My parents wanted Brian and I to be close so we went and stayed in a hotel in Ogden Tuesday and Wednesday. I was lucky enough to stay with my parents while Brian entertained the kids (they really enjoyed the hotel pool). I watched my mother take such loving care of her father as he was unable to communicate very well for the last few days. I sat on the couch next to his hospital bed and watched him stop breathing for a full minute at a time and then struggle to breath again. I thought for sure he would pass away peacefully in his sleep that night. The next morning he was up and in his chair. I left for the morning to go be with the kids. I came back just after lunch. Poppa smiled at me and tried his best to say hello. He was getting more and more agitated and we were doing our best to figure out what he needed.

The nurse showed up just in time. She said it was time to push the morphine and that he would be gone in a few hours. I was a little surprised that it would be so quick. She convinced him to get into his bed. He was really struggling to breath. His body was fighting to live even though I am sure he was ready to go home. It is an image I won't soon forget. I had to go downstairs and keep Brynlee happy. Brian showed up with dinner and the boys. I left them all downstairs while I went to go check on Poppa. I walked in the room just as he left. Mum told me she got close to him and said that maybe Tyler would be his escort and he nodded and then was gone. Such a special moment. I will never forget the great peace that filled that home for hours after his death.

The tears were quick. He was such a great man. I really thought I was prepared for him to go. I don't think you can ever be prepared for death. As mum and dad got on the phone to let the family all know the nurses took great care of his body. I got a moment alone with him. So many happy memories growing up with him. Every summer we would come to SLC as a family and we would shop in the morning and swim in the afternoon. It is a highlight of my childhood as I know it is for my siblings and cousins.

It brings me great peace to know that families are forever. and to know that poppa is back with his sweetheart. How grateful I am for the great plan of salvation. No empty chairs poppa :) save me a seat!